Sometimes we make the mistake of differentiating between the
offices of pastor and deacon by talking about those who lead the church
(pastors) and those who serve the church (deacons). I say we do this mistakenly
because both are to be servants and both are to be leaders. In truth, they
should readily surrender to the reality that those called by God to be in these
positions are to be servant leaders. Pastors serve the flock by utilizing their
God-given gifts every day. Deacons become leaders by virtue of their
servanthood. If Jesus came to serve and not be served, how much more, then,
should the men called to minister to the flock be servants? I tell my deacons
all the time that when they serve the people of the church, the people will put
them into leadership positions. That means that both pastors and deacons should
be and will be held to a higher level of accountability.
In many ways the qualifications for deacons are similar to
that of pastors. Paul told pastors at the beginning that they are to be
blameless, and then describes what that means in the verses that follow. He
included the qualification for deacons, too. Both groups of men must live lives
of personal integrity so that no one can charge them with any misconduct. They
must have the respect of those inside and outside the church.
Notice how Paul started this list: “Likewise the deacons
must be reverent….” In other words, just like pastors, deacons must have this
character trait, too. Being reverent. We tend to think of this word as meaning
miserable. It’s kind of like the man who was walking down the street when he
was stopped by a passerby who asked him, “Are you a pastor?” To which the man
replied, “No, but I have been sick lately.” I can’t get my mind around how
people think that godliness means walking around with your hands folded in
front of you with a serious look on your face. The most godly man of all times
was accused of being a party-animal (glutton and winebibber), and children
loved Him. You don’t get that reaction if someone is serious all of the time.
Neither are pastors and deacons required to be serious all of the time. The
word does mean that they are serious-minded men who know how to behave when
serious issues confront the church. The word does mean that they must be men
whose character merits respect. The word does mean that they are to be men of
dignity and purpose. But it doesn’t mean serious all the time. It doesn’t mean
boring. Like the song says, “Pastors just want to have fun!” Well, maybe the
song doesn’t refer to pastors, and maybe pastors don’t JUST want to have fun.
But I think you get my meaning!